I just finished reading an excellent book by Kevin DeYoung named Just Do Something. The subtitle explains the content of the book pretty clealry: How to Make a Decision Without Dreams, Visions, Fleeces, Impressions, Open Doors, Random Bible Verses, Casting Lots, Liver Shivers, Writing in the Sky, etc.
If you’re like me, you’ve tried one or more of these methods for trying to pry open the heavens and discover God’s plan for your life. And if you’re like me, you’ve often been misled by gut feelings and “open doors,” which are both very subjective and easily misread. The author says: “How do you know when an open door is the Lord’s open door or the Devil tempting you? How do you know when a closed door is the Lord’s answer to your prayer or the Lord testing your steadfastness and resolve?”
It turns out that the way we view “finding God’s will” today is very different than the way it was viewed throughout the rest of Christian history. The author makes a good case that being in God’s will is more about following His moral directives than discovering what specific place, relationship or job He has for you. While most of us are so caught up in praying about whether to move to Nashville or Atlanta, that we totally miss God’s will for our lives, which is our sanctification (our Christ-likeness) no matter where we live (1 Thes. 4:3). DeYoung puts it this way:
My point is that we should spend more time trying to figure out how to act justly, love mercy and walk humbly with God (as instructed in Micah 6:8) as a doctor or lawyer and less time worry about whether God wants us to be a doctor or lawyer.
In the providence of God, yes, it is His will that we live in a certain place with a certain person and have a certain job. But should we expect Him to reveal all that to us in advance? The Scriptures do record supernatural communication, after all. But it never prescribes it. For example, the story of Gideon’s fleece is recorded in Judges, a portion of Scripture where “everyone did what was right in his own eyes” (Judges 21:25). Gideon’s request may actually be an example of cowardice rather than wisdom. Regardless, these special communications from God were… well, special. They didn’t happen at every single fork in the road. The author quotes Bible scolar Bruce Waltke as saying, “The special revelation of God was a rare and unique experience, even for [the apostle] Paul. . . . We cannot take special circumstances and make them the norm by which we live our lives.” And why are we so obsessed with knowing, anyway?
We often want to know the details of our future so that we can maximize happiness and minimize trouble. Isn’t that what most of our prayers boil down to? When I ask God about moving to Atlanta or Nashville, at the heart of that prayer is often that I would be able to maintain my standard of living, that my family would be safe, that I would have a stable job, etc. How often do you see that type of prayer in the Bible? You don’t. Safety was the last concern of first-century Christians. Their bold prayer was to glorify God, even if it meant their death.
Another reason we cast lots and throw out fleeces is to avoid taking responsibility for our own decisions. DeYoung points out that the Latin word for decision is decidere, which means “to cut off.” We often hate making decisions because anytime we make a decision for one thing, we’re deciding against a hundred others. We’re cutting off other possibilities. And that’s scary. What if we end up choosing a second-best option?

What if God’s will really wasn’t as complicated and confusing as we’ve made it out to be? What if we all started seeking God’s will as it were laid out in Scripture? It would certainly affect the criteria we use in considering options. We would know that God would want us to buy a house if that house will make us more Christ-like. God would want us to be married if the spouse would bring us closer to God. God would want us to take a different job if that job would help sanctify us and make us holy. God’s will is always our sanctification. Knowing that really chances our prayer lives. For example, instead of praying, “God, show me which job I should take,” a more biblical prayer might be:”God, help me find wisdom in Your Word that will aid me in making a decision that glorifies you. Help me see the situation clearly. Help me not make a decision based on fear or pride. Help me not be enslaved to pleasing other people but only pleasing you in this decision. Help me be humble and trust You. Make my motives pure, and increase my faith!”
It turns out that there are no shortcuts to finding God’s will. It comes through prayer. It comes through wise council. But most of all, it comes when we gain wisdom from the Scripture and renew our minds with His truth. So, read your Bible! Don’t open to a random verse. Study it! The author says, “Sadly, some Christians put greater stock in the Word of God when it is randomly selected than when it is read chapter by chapter, day after day.” Sad, indeed. And lazy.
God’s will is there for us to discover, and it turns out it’s been right in front of our eyes the whole time:
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus (1 Thes. 5:16-18).
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